Hello everybody! longtime no talk!
Ive been pretty damn busy lately with working in colorado on a multi billion dollar project, i might have some pics up here on this one.... maybe...... depending on if mom saved them on her desktop or her lap top..... hmmmm..... anyway, first of all i would like to say congrats sara and jeromy! i am so freakin happy for you guys! You deserve this baby! i have never seen ANYBODY want anything so bad in my life, and the miricles that had to happen to have her here, its just wow. And that means alot that i said miricles cause i dont even really belive in miricles weird eh? but constance is nothing short of one, and once again congrats and if you guys need anything let me know. Second of all thank everyone that has been supporting me in this whole Trial situation that i have been going through with my son. I know i have made alot of mistakes in this area of my life, and i know how much i have hurt people,...aka....mom and dad.... but the good thing about being human is you can recignize mistakes and try to correct them right? I have been in and out of court for almost a year now, and it has been very very very very stressfull, to be totally honest i bawl on a daily basis over everything that is happening right now, and this IS the hardest time i have had in my life to date..... I especially have to thank my mother and father for all of their support! there is no way in hell i could do this without them! they have been my shoulder to cry on, they have been my crutch when i felt like falling to the ground and giving up. so MOM, DAD, thank you both very very much, i would also like to thank sara for her moral support on this whole situation. Speaking of this whole subject, it has came to my knowelge that someone is not very happy with my mother, and to be honest with you cough cough CADE, from what i have herd about this phone call with my mother, you feel like she has spent way more energy on my son than she has on her other grandchildren, truth is she has. i really dont know if your justified in being mad about it though. When was the last time you made an effort to showup, and be a part of your inlaws? How many times do they call you and my sister and invite you guys to do things? how many oppertunitys do you have to bring your son around my family and enjoy the love that we have to offer? Okay thats what i thought. if you cant tell i am NOT very fucking happy with you right now. and belive me if you didnt feel awkward being around me before i said anything. just wait untill now. Now i belive you owe my mother and apologie. And melisa dont get me wrong i love you TO DEATH and i alwase will sister, but i think you should look back on how your husband has had an affect on how you treat your family and your prioritys in life. We would love to have you and lock and even kade over to visit once in a blue moon. but i do love you and i hope you dont have hatred towards my comments to your husband. but the truth hurts. okay. im done being a "hater" for the day. cant wait to see you all during the holidays, i HOPE you all make an effort to be at moms for christmas, i know it would mean the world to her to see all her kids home for christmas.
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Trent its nice to see you posting again. We missed ya. But how am I suppose to know how old pj is now that you have made a more recent post. (I noticed the other day that it said 9 months since your last post. thats about as old as pj hehehe) I've never once felt like Mom was giving Jake more attention than PJ or Locke. She does what she can when she can and she would give anything for all three sorry four of them (sorry sara forgot constance was born for a min.) I know she makes an effort every time she can to see her grandkids. She never once complained if we can't or how far she has to go to see them. And it is a two way street. I know I've heard many excuses about people not being able to come. Hmmm is that where that email from Mom came from. Cause I pretty much wanted to KILL who ever made her feel like she is a horrible mother. I love her so dang much and it breaks my heart to know that someone made her feel like that. She has done so much for all her children and grandchildren I don't know how any one would want to make her feel that way. I know that she is always sticking up for who ever it is we are complaining about so why would we need to complain about her? Can't wait to see you for christmas I'm excited to have it at Moms this year.Love ya Trent.
Trent, I hope everything is getting better for ya. I can't understand exactly what you are going through, but I went through a rough patch and was so thankful for my parents, so I know how you feel about that. Anyways, Dusty forgot one thing in her comment. Marty and Martin are not only great to their kids and grandkids, but I have never felt anything but love and acceptance from them, so I am going to throw in spouses of their kids. And Trent, you are a great uncle, Parker doesn't even cry when you hold him, but does when most my bros do.
Hey trent your right your parents are awesome people. They arent only loving and supportive of their kids but have had room to love and support many people. There are times I would have been in big trouble without your mom she is an amazing person and I dont know kade but I cant imagine anyone saying she is a bad person or grandma. She loves her grandkids all of them they are all usually the center of conversation and it doesnt seem to me she loves or is focused on one more then the other. I hope she decides to put her blog back up and not worry about people who are jerks. Good luck with your court deal it sounds pretty crappy and definantly isnt fair I know it isnt easy but hang in there and it will all be ok. By the way I am Beckie I work with your mom and she has been a great friend to me.
I have been avoiding this for a while but it is looking like it is getting a little out of control I guess I will say my peace and hope that it is not taken the wrong way by someone. It appears that Satan has grabbed hold of this family of mine and dosnt want to let go.
So here goes!
THERE WILL BE NO MORE MEAN AND HURTFUL THINGS SAID TO EACH OTHER. IF YOU HAVE NOTHING GOOD TO SAY THEN JUST KEEP IT TO YOURSELF. If you happen to be jelous of each other for some crazy reason, get over it! You are adults. Or at least I thought you all were. If you want to hang out with us when we do things great. If your schedule will not permit it we understand. Plain and simple rules we have here. You are ALL ALWAYS welcome at our house. WE will ALWAYS do what we can to help you. If you dont want our advise about life then Dont listen.
WE will ALWAYS be your parents. WE ARE NOT PERFECT NOR WILL WE EVER BE! WE LOVE YOU ALL.... ALL THE TIME! EQUALLY!
THE END.
Wow trent, Just wow.
Class act Trent. Class act.
Seeing how this is the way we all communicate, I wanted to thank all of you for bringing your problems to me personally instead of commenting on blogs behind my back and posting ridiculous things like this. It makes me feel like a loved member of our family.
For the record, you could honestly call if you have a beef with me or my husband. I'm glad you can all gang up on us like a pack of wolves, and make us feel like terrible people for bringing a concern to someone (mom). I'm glad you all could hash it out among yourselves & get everything worked out.
Oh, and I'm also glad that none of you said a WORD about this when we saw you at Christmas time. Just keep on pretending like everything is alright. Glad we were the last to know everyone hated us.
I think you should delete this post Trent.
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